“But now I am writing to you not to associate with anyone who bears the name of brother or sister who is sexually immoral or greedy, or is an idolater, reviler, drunkard, or robber. Do not even eat with such a one.” 1 Corinthians 5:11
Reflections
A daughter who knew not to get involved in risky illegal drugs gets involved with a boyfriend who is a user. She brings the boyfriend home, subjecting the other children within the household to his dangerous influence. As a parent, what is the loving thing to do? Try to be “nice” and pretend everything is okay? Or, for the sake of the other vulnerable children in the household, confront the daughter? “As long as you make choices like this, you will be choosing to live under another roof.”
Tough love is not easy, but it may end up saving a child’s life. A “wakeup call” can help a person see the err of their ways and change the direction their life is headed. Others vulnerable to their influence will be protected as well. This may not be the only way to handle such difficult situations. Nonetheless, very dangerous situations need to be taken very seriously.
This is what the Apostle Paul was addressing in 1 Corinthians 5. Bad dangerous influences need to be taken seriously. Leadership within the household of faith have the responsibility to clearly communicate what is appropriate and inappropriate behavior, protecting the vulnerable. The truth needs to be spoken in love—even when it is difficult to do so.
Prayer
Lord God, thank you for your way which is much better than the ways of this world. Help me to speak the truth in love and make the difficult decisions when needed. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.
Full Reading: 1 Corinthians 5:1-13